In the quiet corners of Goa, an unsettling reality has come to light – the surge in child pregnancies and the disturbing trend of ‘grooming’ that accompanies it.
As we grapple with the shock of two reported cases this year, it is crucial to delve into the heart of the matter and confront the deep-seated issues that allow such heinous acts to persist.
The cases not only highlight the immediate need for stricter legal measures, but also underscore the importance of societal awareness and education.
Over the past five years, according to a local newspaper, there has been a troubling increase in cases of men, some married with families, grooming vulnerable young girls into illicit relationships.
The statistics are alarming – from 10 to 13 cases between 2019 and 2022, rising to a maximum of 16 cases reported last year.
The statistics are alarming – from 10 to 13 cases between 2019 and 2022, rising to a maximum of 16 cases reported last year. This year has already seen two cases, with one victim child having given birth.
It is a stark reminder that we cannot afford to turn a blind eye to the nefarious activities that threaten the safety and well-being of our youth.
Emidio Pinho, in charge of the Victim Assistance Unit (VAU) in Goa, explained the insidious tactics employed by perpetrators. Predators manipulate young victims into believing they initiate relationships, creating a twisted trust and emotional connection.
Victims, often girls in their formative years, feel responsible for their actions, viewing themselves as perpetrators while the actual culprits play the role of victims. It is a cycle of abuse that is becoming all too common in Goa.
What is particularly distressing is that some of these accused individuals have children of similar ages to their victims. The implications of such behaviour extend beyond the immediate victims, affecting families and communities at large.
Thus, there is an urgent need for the government to recognise 'grooming' as a serious punishable offence. By doing so, we can hope to prevent further instances of sexual assault and rape and send a clear message that such predatory behaviour will not be tolerated.
The police have uncovered cases where victims, out of fear and shame, hide their pregnancies until delivery or until detected by doctors.
The police have uncovered cases where victims, out of fear and shame, hide their pregnancies until delivery or until detected by doctors. This is especially prevalent in families with limited education, where parents may not recognize the signs.
The girls, in an attempt to conceal their condition, isolate themselves, wear concealing clothing and even resort to the drastic measure of hiding their growing bellies under loose clothes.
Shockingly, schools have also failed to identify teen pregnancies in some cases, as victims continue attending classes, adeptly concealing their situations.
This is highly distressing to know, that girl students who should have been studying at that age are forced to think and bear the mental torture of something she is not responsible for, while the perpetrator simply enjoys his life.
It is a stark reminder that our society, despite progress in various domains, still grapples with deep-rooted issues related to gender, power dynamics and the vulnerability of the youth.
The heart-wrenching aspect of this issue is the silent suffering of these young girls who endure the unimaginable pain of abuse, manipulation and the physical toll of early pregnancies.
It is a stark reminder that our society, despite progress in various domains, still grapples with deep-rooted issues related to gender, power dynamics and the vulnerability of the youth.
To combat this disturbing trend, a multi-faceted approach is necessary. Firstly, there must be a comprehensive overhaul of legal frameworks to explicitly recognise and penalise grooming as a criminal offence.
Such legislation should include stringent measures to hold not only the perpetrators, but also those who enable or turn a blind eye to such activities, accountable.
To combat this disturbing trend, a multi-faceted approach is necessary.
Secondly, education plays a pivotal role. Schools must take an active stance in educating students about healthy relationships, consent and the tactics employed by predators.
Parents, too, need to be equipped with the knowledge to recognise signs of abuse and create an open environment for their children to confide in them without fear.
Thirdly, community awareness programs should be initiated to break the silence surrounding these issues.
It is crucial to eliminate the stigma associated with reporting abuse and empower victims to speak out against their perpetrators. This involves fostering an environment where survivors are supported and believed, rather than being subjected to judgment or scepticism.
The surge in child pregnancies and the sinister trend of 'grooming' in Goa demand immediate attention and concerted efforts from all sections of society.
It is not merely a legal issue but a societal one that requires a collective commitment to protect our youth.
The surge in child pregnancies and the sinister trend of grooming in Goa demand immediate attention and concerted efforts from all sections of society.
By addressing the root causes, educating the public and implementing strict legal measures, we can hope to create a safer environment for our children, free from the clutches of predators.
It is time to unite against the darkness that threatens the innocence of our youth, and strive for a future where every child can grow and flourish without the looming shadows of abuse and manipulation.
